Understanding

Talking

What Can I Do?


Birth to 3 Months

  • Startles to a sudden loud noise

  • Be soothed or calmed by your voice

  • Turns head toward you when you speak

  • Appears to smile or otherwise focus on voices when spoken to

  • Wakes up in response to loud sounds

  • Coos, gurgles, and makes other pleasant “baby sounds”

  • Mimics facial expressions (sticks tongue out when you do so repeatedly)

  • Has different cries for different circumstances (hunger, discomfort)

  • Start reading simple board books to your baby

  • Sing songs to your baby (let them see your mouth move)

  • Become aware of your baby's moods and diffferent sounds


3 to 6 Months

  • Turns or looks toward source of a new sound

  • Responds to changes in tone of voice

  • Enjoys toys that make sounds (rattles, etc.)

  • Begins to repeat simple sounds (aah, ba-ba, ooh)

  • Makes razzing or bubble sounds, even when eating

  • May squeal or shriek

  • Begin using simple sign language with  your baby (more, all done, eat, sleep, bye bye)

  • Imitate movements, faces and sounds your baby makes so that you have a "conversation"


6 to 10 months

  • Responds to his/her name

  • Responds to environmental sounds (door bell, telephone, etc.) even if not loud

  • Begins responding to requests such as “come here”

  • Looks at objects when someone speaks about them (look at the birdy, etc.)

  •  Knows words to common items (bottle, diaper, etc.)

  • Babbles to self, even when alone

  • Babbling may sound "speech-like" in tone

  •  May begin to sign common words (milk, all done)

  • Expresses preferences clearly, if still nonverbally

  • Continue signing 

  • Sing “interactive” play songs (itsy-bitsy spider, wheels on the bus, I’m a little teapot) to your baby

  •  Talk about what you are doing while you do it (I'm washing your hair, next we'll do your arms).


10 to 15 Months

  • Enjoys games like peek-a-boo

  • Can follow simple (one-step) commands accompanied by gestures

  • Plays with her voice, taking pleasure in changing sounds

  • Points to familiar objects or people when asked to 

  • Imitates simple sounds 

  • Uses at least one word meaningfully

  • Imitate sounds and words your child says 

  • Ask simple questions while reading: who's that? where's the duck?

  • Keep reading


15 to 18 Months

  • Follows simple commands (give me your toy) without being shown

  • Can point to some body parts when asked (Where’s your nose?)

  • Uses 2 or 3 word phrases to make requests or describe something (look doggie, more milk)

  • Talks in what sound like multi-word sentences (meaning may not be intelligible)

  • Talk about common vocabulary during daily routines (body parts while getting dressed, etc)

  •  Label items and actions in the environment

  • Teach your child to point to what they want if they don't know the word.


18 to 24 Months

  • Responds to simple yes/no questions (Are you hungry?)

  • Understands simple phrases (on the table, in your crib)

  • Enjoys being read to

  • Understands you when you call from another room

  • 50 words (pronunciation is unclear)

  • Asks for food by name (yogurt, more milk)

  • Uses possessive pronouns (mine)

  • Regularly uses 2-3 word phrases

  • Makes animal sounds (ruff, moo)

  • Read together

  • Have your child point to pictures in books

  • Encourage child to use their words for communication

  • Model good language for child

  • Talk about what's going on around you


24 to 36 Months

  • Can choose things by size (Show me the little block)

  • Understands “not now” and “no more”

  • Can follow two step commands (get your toy and come here)

  • Understands many action words (run, jump)

  • Vocabulary of 250 to 1000 words

  • Speech is clearer (strangers may not yet understand due to dropped word endings, etc.)

  • Uses simple pronouns correctly (me, you, her)

  • Uses descriptive words (big, happy)

  • Knows some spatial words (on, in)

  • Uses 3 or more words in a sentence

  • Answers simple questions

  • Begins to use or experiment with past tense (I jumped) and plurals

  • Uses inflection when asking questions

  • Don't correct pronunciation or grammar, but model correct versions. (i.e., child: "I do'ed it!" parent: "yes, you did it!")  

  • Describe in detail events that happen to the child throughout the day. "First, we'll go to the store, then we'll go to the playground. Maybe you'll go on the swings."

  • Expand on what your child says without expecting them to repeat. So, your child says: "bird!" You say, "yes, I see the bird too. It's a pretty red bird that says 'tweet tweet'".


3 to 4 Years

  • Answers a variety of simple "wh" questions (who, what doing, where)

  • Understands a sequence of events described to him/her (first we'll ___, then we'll ___)

  • Understands most of what is said to him/her about events in immediate past, present, future that are directly related to child.

  • Understands terms like "yesterday" "later today" and "tomorrow"

  • Points to pictures in books based on verbal description (which cat is sleeping?)

  • Can identify colors

  • Can accurately group items (animals vs. food vs. clothing)

  • Strangers can understand most of what your child says

  • Has fun with language (reacts to silly questions like is there a giraffe on your bed?)

  • Can begin to express ideas or feelings

  • Uses consonants in beginning, middle and end of words (may not pronounce all consonant combinations clearly, but attempts to do so)

  • Uses –ing verbs (walking, eating, etc.)

  • Play with sounds and language: make silly word combinations

  • Continue reading!

  • Respond to his/her comments with encouragement for more: "really? what then?"

  • Label feelings for your child: "when you fell down you really felt hurt and mad"

  • Cook with your child to work on sequencing and vocabulary.


4 to 5 Years

  • Understands most of what is said to him/her about recent past, present and future events.

  • Understands terms like "next week" and "in the fall"

  • Knows a variety of colors and shapes, including some less common ones (light blue, diamond)

  • Can answer why questions

  • Follows complex directions, (after you get your shoes, get your backpack)

  • Understands complex questions

  • Understands more complex spatial descriptors (next to, behind)

  • Speech is reliably intelligible to family & strangers (long/complex words may still be mispronounced)

  • 1500 word vocabulary

  • Defines words

  • Uses some irregular past tense verbs (ran, fell)

  • Can describe how to do something (how to make a sandwich, paint a picture)

  • Listen to and enjoy unique thoughts of your child

  • Ask open-ended questions: what do you think will happen? 

  • Provide definitions for new words /concepts

  • Expose to a variety of activities with new vocabulary

  • Encourage your child to "read" and "write" by drawing pictures and dictating or scribbling a "story", making a shopping list, etc.


5 Years

  • Understands the majority of what is said to him/her AS WELL AS what is said AROUND him/her.

  • Learns new vocabulary easily

  • Recognizes certain letters

  • May know some letter sounds

  • May recognize some words in context

  • 2000+ word vocabulary

  • Can explain & follow at least three-stage sequences (what happened first, second, third, etc.)

  • Sentences can be more than eight words long

  • Actively uses imagination to tell stories

  • Uses multiple descriptors (including comparative references) to describe an object

  • Engages in elaborate conversation with adults and peers

  • Pay attention to your language and topics around your child

  • Explain new vocabulary clearly and concisely

  • For complex topics (sex, race, etc) answer the question that the child asks (not the one you think was buried underneath)

  • Talk TO your child -- he/she is probably good company.

  • Point out signs in the environment that your child may recognize (stop, street signs, restaurants)